What I Actually Wore in Thailand (Across 4 Trips)

Four trips means I've had four chances to get this right. Here's what survived temples, boats, rooftop bars, and Full Moon Parties.

1. Rooftop bar outfit — Bangkok

You need ONE polished outfit for Bangkok's rooftop scene. Mine was a fitted midi dress with statement earrings. Tichuca and Akara Sky both have smart-casual dress codes. No flip-flops, no tank tops. Dress like you belong on the 40th floor.

2. Temple-appropriate maxi dress

Long, covered shoulders, breathable fabric. I bought most of mine from Bangkok's own markets. The trick is a dress that works for temples AND looks good in photos — avoid shapeless cover-ups. A fitted silhouette in a bold colour (burnt orange, deep green, fuchsia) photographs beautifully against gold temple architecture.

3. Bikini top + high-waisted linen shorts

My island-hopping uniform. Practical for boats (you WILL get splashed), quick-drying, and still looks intentional. Wore this in Phuket, Phi Phi, and Koh Tao.

4. Full Moon Party outfit — neon bikini + denim shorts

You will get paint thrown on you. You will get wet. Wear something you don't care about but that looks fun in photos. I went neon because you're basically invisible in regular colours under UV lights.

5. Adventure day outfit — leggings + tank + sturdy shoes

Ziplining, river rafting, ATV riding, elephant bathing — the Phuket day tour destroyed anything nice. Wear athletic gear. This is not a fashion moment and that's fine.

6. White linen for Railey

The luxury resort beach sunset called for something elevated. White linen against Railey's turquoise water and golden cliffs. Sometimes you just know an outfit and a place are going to get along.

7. The mistake: over-packing heels

Four trips to Thailand. Zero times I wore heels. Even the rooftop bars are fine with clean sandals or nice flats. The cobblestones in Old Town Phuket alone should be enough to convince you.